A good toy is an investment in yourself, so look after it. Here's how to clean, dry, charge and store your toys properly, without the guesswork.
Nobody talks much about what happens after. You've had a lovely time, you're warm and sleepy, and the last thing you want to think about is hygiene. But a two-minute habit is the difference between a toy that lasts a couple of months and one that's still going strong years from now. Here's everything you need to know.
Why cleaning actually matters
Your toy spends time in one of the most delicate environments in your body. Leftover fluids and lube can harbour bacteria, and putting an unwashed toy back into use can upset your natural balance and make irritation or infections more likely. Cleaning after every use (and a quick rinse before, if it's been sitting in a drawer) keeps things comfortable and healthy.
How to clean it, step by step
Most modern toys are made from body-safe silicone, which is non-porous and easy to keep clean. For these:
- Check the waterproofing first. Fully waterproof toys can go straight under the tap. Splash-proof ones should be wiped, not submerged, and kept away from the charging port.
- Use warm water and a mild, unscented soap. Skip anything harsh, antibacterial or heavily perfumed. A dedicated toy cleaner is great too, but not essential.
- Pay attention to the details. Seams, buttons, textured surfaces and the opening of suction toys are where residue likes to hide. A soft cloth or clean fingertip does the job.
- Rinse well. Soap left behind can irritate sensitive skin.
Dry it properly (this is the bit people skip)
Pat your toy dry with a lint-free cloth or clean towel, then let it air-dry completely before putting it away. Trapped moisture is what turns a clean toy into a less-clean one. Make sure the charging port is fully dry before you plug it in.
Store it like you mean it
Tossing everything into the bedside drawer is very relatable, but it's not ideal. Dust and lint cling to silicone, and some materials can react when they touch each other for long periods. Instead:
- Keep each toy in its own pouch or a soft cloth bag.
- Store them somewhere cool and dry, away from direct sunlight.
- Lock the toy if it has a travel lock, so it doesn't buzz to life in your suitcase.
Look after the battery
Rechargeable toys are happiest when they're not left completely flat for months. If you're not using one regularly, give it a top-up every few weeks. Use the cable it came with, and avoid leaving it charging overnight for days on end.
A quick word on lube
Water-based lube is the safe pick for silicone toys. Silicone-based lube can break down the surface of silicone toys over time, leaving them tacky or pitted. If you'd like a refresher, our post on whether lube expires covers the rest.
When it's time to say goodbye
Even with great care, toys don't last forever. If you notice cracks, tears, stickiness, a smell that won't wash out, or a battery that no longer holds charge, it's time for a replacement. Not sure what to choose next? Our Find My Match quiz takes a couple of minutes and points you towards something that suits you.
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